40 - Alpha Coach VS Beta Coach: Get Clients to Come to YOU
Are you an alpha coach or a beta coach? What’s the difference? Listen in as I share how to find your power, become an alpha coach, and become unshakable in today’s episode of Payday With Rayray.
“I’m a big fan of learning how to become a better leader – which is a lifelong process.”
– Rachel Bell
In this episode, I share how to find your own authentic power as an alpha coach. You’ll listen in as I break down the specific traits of an alpha vs. beta coach and I’ll explain how your clients can always tell the difference. Hear me unveil the countless rewards of being an alpha coach and the practical how-to’s when it comes to shifting from beta to alpha – and get ready to become the truly limitless leader you were meant to be.
Here’s a glance at what you’ll learn from me in this episode:
What it REALLY means to be a coach.
How to find and connect to your OWN authentic power.
What contributes to the RESISTENCE of your own power.
The REWARDS and risks of being an alpha coach.
The SPECIFIC traits of an alpha vs. beta coach.
How to become an alpha coach and embody the traits of a truly limitless leader.
Show Notes
01:00 – Today’s topic: The difference between alpha and beta coaches.
04:00 – You’ll learn the behavioral and internal changes necessary to become alpha.
04:50 – Even leaders can improve and ask who they can trust and believe in.
06:50 – Information about OCA.
10:15 – Know your role: Being a coach is a dance and you wear many different hats.
11:40 – The things that build and deteriorate trust.
13:45 – You need healthy boundaries and your clients need to be safe under your care.
14:20 – To remain strong in your role as a leader, be an alpha coach.
15:20 – When you play small and react, your clients know you aren’t taking leadership.
16:30 – Everyone has power and gets it in different ways; connect to your own power.
18:15 – The things that contribute to the resistance of your own power and how it affects your clients:
18:40 – The perception of self, the perception of others, and losing the protection of the crowd (stepping outside of the normal).
19:39 – Being an alpha coach can feel like a thankless duty.
21:30 – The rewards and risks of playing big and being an alpha coach: You become unshakeable, unstoppable, and unmovable.
23:10 – As an alpha coach, you stay grounded and aren’t wrapped up in games or distortions.
24:00 – You’re able to tap into unconditional love and limitless love.
25:20 – You become a trailblazer and aren’t afraid of the unknown.
27:20 – What an alpha coach demonstrates: focus, commitment, love, and power.
27:45 – I list the granular traits of an alpha coach.
30:30 – The traits of a beta coach.
34:45 – How to go from being a beta to an alpha coach.
36:00 – Some homework.
Exercise
Ask yourself:
Where are you exemplifying beta behavior and where can you release these behaviors in a better way?
Name 3 alpha coach leaders in your life and write down what feelings they elicit in you. Then, give them a shout out on social media.
“If you’re more concerned with being perfect rather than being authentic, that is the ultimate beta coach behavior and it’s got to end.”
– Rachel Bell
